Share Have you ever felt like you should just settle for Mr. He’ll-Do-For-Now? Would you be able to tell if you were indeed settling? Have your friends told you that you’re too picky? Are you fearful that you might have to give up on your dreams because your biological clock is ticking and you’re running out of options? As you get... (more)

Share I recently held a private workshop for a group of women. All in attendance were smart, successful women. Women that were used to going out and getting what they wanted in life. I noticed that the theme of the night was all about “looking for a mate” or “getting men to commit.” I started thinking about this today and what... (more)

Share There was a time when it was taboo to seek out a dating service or a matchmaking firm.

Times certainly have changed. In the larger cities where connecting and meeting people is tantamount to climbing Mt. Everest, it’s become a necessity more than a luxury. I will blame LA for much of this. Unlike San Francisco, New York City,... (more)

Share It’s simple. It’s about how you MAKE someone feel. It’s not about your beauty, your body, the money you make, the car you drive, the places you’ve traveled or your education and career. There is no such thing as “A Catch” across the board.  If beauty and brains were everything, then there wouldn’t be... (more)

Share New relationships are beginning and the economy is certainly creating a new focus on everyone’s personal life. This can only be a good thing! Quick updates:

I led a Single in the 30′s focus group for Good Morning America last week which aired this morning. What a fascinating experiment this was. We interviewed 4 men in... (more)

Share At least to your emotional health. For some people, dating on line can cause feelings of low self esteem. It can really put a ding in your confidence if you’re not careful. I’m sure you’ve been through it. Great email correspondence and a few flirty exchanges and then all of a sudden, silence. Did he meet someone else? Was it... (more)