Throughout the month of August, I’ll be featuring some of my most popular ASK APRIL videos here on Sparks! I’ll see you back here in September, and in the meantime have a fantastic summer!
I get hundreds of emails from women every month and one of the most popular questions runs along these lines: “April, you keep recommending that I be feminine, but how do I do that when I have to be capable, strong, effective and in charge at work?”
Finding the balance.
If you’ve ever questioned this in your own life (and I’m sure you have), I want you to know that you’re not alone. This is perplexing to most modern, professional women. Our world has shifted so much and, regardless of how financially successful we are, we work hard at everything we do. Stress levels for women are on the rise and it can be tough to keep everything in check.
I get it. I run a busy and successful company. Yes, it’s a Matchmaking & Relationship Consulting company, but it’s still a business and I have to constantly work at maintaining my inner “girl.”
You are still a woman.
You don’t have to get rid of the female aspect of who you are in order to be capable, strong and effective. You deserve to be your entire self, not just your work self!
I’ve packed this video with my 3 best tips on how to stay centered in your FEMININE power 24/7, and you can start using these dating tips today to make a huge difference in how you feel and how you are being perceived.
Do you have other tactics for letting your feminine self thrive? Share your thoughts in the comments below.