The Future Of Dating: How to Embrace the Change

The future of dating is going to look very different from what we’re used to. I’m already seeing a shift in people: Everyone is reaching just a little deeper. These are unprecedented times, my friend. It’s only natural that we would evolve after going through a crisis of this level. We’re going to come out […]

3 Ways to Create Meaningful Connections in a Socially Distanced World

If you’ve spent any time on dating apps, then you know how fleeting the connections can be. One day you’re having a great text exchange with a man and the next he’s totally gone off the radar. Maybe you’ve made it out of the never ending text spin-cycle and you graduated to a FaceTime or […]

5 Ways to Date with Intention – Not Goals

Everywhere you turn, you’re being asked to make resolutions for 2021 and to set your goals. There’s a lot of pressure to perform, to be strong, to charge ahead, to “reach your goals this year”. Don’t get me wrong, writing down your goals is a good thing. We all know that if we just talk […]

How to Spring Forward Your Love Life

It’s the first day of Spring! A time of birth and renewal.  The longer days, the budding greenery, and warmer weather give us an opportunity to renew anything and everything about our lives that may need a bit of dusting off. In the spirit of the season, I have some thoughts on how to hit […]

Qualified Advice For Your Love Life

You may already know that I’ve been joining Anna Faris as one of her resident experts to offer qualified advice for your love life on a number of episodes of her brilliant, funny, and poignant podcast, Unqualified. In this most recent episode, we help two callers with their dating challenges, made more difficult by the […]

How To Create Virtual Intimacy

Last week I hosted a webinar to discuss creating virtual intimacy during this pandemic. With everything else that has come to a screeching halt, I know that you’re feeling a bit lost and feeling like you don’t have the opportunities that you had prior to all of this. I’m here to tell you that it’s […]

Social Distancing and Your Dating Life

I started this blog a week ago about social distancing and your dating life. With each passing day, the information we’re receiving changes so dramatically. So, the original piece I wanted to write for you has morphed into something else today. I’m a female keynote speaker, professional matchmaker as well as a dating coach. A lot […]

Your Valentine’s Day Survival Guide

Valentine’s Day is approaching so this is the perfect time to send you inspiration in the form of your ultimate survival guide! Whether you’re single and searching, coming out of a relationship, or currently in one, this holiday tends to create a ton of excitement…and dread. Expectations are sky-high this time of year and with […]

10 Reflection Questions for Relationship Readiness

We’re here! We’re heading into the New Year and this is the perfect time to update and hit the reset button to kickstart 2021 in a positive way. I know this year has been challenging on so many levels and your love life has definitely been impacted either directly or indirectly by everything that’s happened. […]

5 Lessons to Learn Before Marriage

I cry at every wedding. Whether it’s a happy client tying the knot, a dear friend who’s found their happy ever after or a family member. If I’m attending, it’s going to be waterworks, for sure. Last month on a sandy beach on the Cape was no exception. Our very own Jayme Hupfer, the woman […]