What if I were to tell YOU that you have the same opportunity to meet these men that I do?

You see, my clients aren’t living in a cave; only venturing out for work, dates and meetings. They’re breathing, walking, talking in the same circles you travel in. You pass by them every day.

Instead of trying to show up where these men are, you need to be approachable so they notice YOU wherever YOU are.

I don’t want you out there chasing your tail (or men) for that matter. It goes against what I teach and what I know does not work in love and romance. (I’m sending you a special video next week where I tell you the 3 things that hurt your love life and what you can do about it. Stay tuned and be sure to check your inbox!)

You might be missing out on a few important opportunities because you’re not as approachable as you might think. In today’s video, I’m going to show you what those are.

In today’s video you learn:

1. Why simply meeting these men is NOT enough
2. How to create space by prioritizing your personal life
3. What makes it impossible for a man to approach you.
4. Why your awareness is key to meeting quality men

And so much more!

Thanks for watching! Want to connect with me on this topic? Don’t be shy! Let’s chat and I’m always engaging with you at https://www.facebook.com/aprilbeyerdatingexpert. Join the awesome community of women and get my daily tips and advice.

I’ll also be looking forward to your comments on the blog and I do read each and every one of your posts.

Your friend in love,

P.S. Most women I meet have a false idea about what men want and as a result, they’re sending out all the wrong signals. Be sure to check for next week’s special video where I’m laying it all out for you. Don’t miss out!

Do you wonder if your dating life is going to put too many dents in the door to your self-esteem?

In today’s video I’m showing you how you can stay true to who YOU are when dating. No more tail wagging the dog! I want you in the driver’s seat of your life!

You’re going to learn:

1. How to do a “Healthy Self-Esteem” tune-up
2. How to develop your Personal Boundaries
3. Speak up! Honesty is always the best policy (and…men appreciate this!)

Would love to hear from you on how you’ve been able to navigate the dating waters and what keeps you on track no matter who walks in and out of your life. I’ll see you on the blog! Let’s chat here!

Your friend in love,

Which brings us to the topic of sex. I haven’t addressed this in my videos yet so I thought today would be a great time to start! After all, spring is in the air!

Today I’m going to show you how to determine compatibility with someone special in your life. We all have different emotional and physical needs and it’s important that you understand YOURS.

Please share your questions and comments below. Let me know how you are enjoying the video series so far! I
 do try and respond to as many as I can and would love to 
hear from you.

Your friend in love,

In today’s ASK April, learn how to get started and determine what type of agency you should look into.

I’ve truly seen it all ladies. From several years working for a larger, fast paced company to running my own personal firm today where I cater to a select group of highly successful, marriage-minded men. Choosing an agency is a big decision and you need to be well informed! Not all are created equal so please take your time and don’t make any fast decisions.

In today’s video I’m giving you my top tips on:

• How to know if a professional service is right for you
• The #1 question you need to ask before hiring anyone
• How to do your targeted research so you don’t regret your choice

Please share your questions and comments below. Let me know how you are enjoying the video series so far! I
 do try and respond to as many as I can and would love to 
hear from you.

Your friend in love,

However, now that online dating has become a popular way to meet, more often your date locations are the local Starbucks. So, what is a girl to do when you’re meeting a new guy at 9 a.m. over coffee? If you have a blind date should you still look sexy and gorgeous? What if you aren’t sure you WANT to attract him?

Watch today’s video for my best tips on how dress for your dates regardless of the time and location.

In this video you’ll learn:

• What “must have” date pieces for your wardrobe
• The power of wearing a dress on your dates
• How to dress up your casual “coffee date” look
• What to wear on after work dates
• Why a stylist is a great idea to update and “datify” your wardrobe

Please share your questions and comments below. I
 do try and respond to as many as I can and would love to 
hear from you.

Your friend in love,

Do you think that eligible, quality men need you to have a great career to take you seriously? I work closely and intimately with these men so I have a lot to say on this subject!

In this week’s video, I’ll explain what is truly valuable about you and it’s not your career or the money in your bank account. I’ll also share what you might be doing to sell yourself short in the love department. You don’t want to miss this one!

You’re going to learn:

• Why your job doesn’t make your more or less of a CATCH
• Why quality men don’t consider your career when considering YOU.
• What is most alluring and attractive about you (hint: It’s your TRUE “Romantic” VALUE)

Please share your questions and comments below. I
 do try and respond to as many as I can and would love to 
hear from you.

Your friend in love,

But is it for you? Have you tried to date online only to feel deflated and more confused? Is it something you think you should do but feel it’s not your style? More importantly, does it embarrass you on any level or make you feel a little too vulnerable? God forbid someone you know should see your photo and bio! What then?

In today’s video, I’m giving you tips on how to get past the fear of dating online and get moving to create new opportunities for yourself.

I’m going to show you:

1. How you’re not alone. Come on! Everyone’s dating online!
2. The common mistake most people make with online photos.
3. How to organize so this doesn’t become your 2nd job.
4. What to write on your profile to get noticed.
5. How to put your fear in check and simplify the process.

Your friend in love,

Are you or anyone you know suffering from the “Do I have to settle to settle down” syndrome? It’s a common question that leaves women feeling unsettled, confused and down right anxious about their dating life.

Let’s be honest. At some point, you’ve been in a relationship where you felt like you were settling. Today I’m going to explain how you can instantly tell if you’re settling and why I believe some women are not being SELECTIVE enough!

I’m going to show you:

1. How to tell if you’re just too picky and missing out on a great man.
2. How to determine the difference between settling and settling down.
3. How you can get super clear about your dream guy by doing a simple exercise.

I would love to hear from you! Please post your thoughts right below the video. I do read each and every one of your comments.

Until next week, I wish you New Beginnings and Lasting Relationships!

Your friend in love,

Are most men only interested in the pursuit? Do men run hot and cold and need women to be mysterious to keep their interest? If you answered TRUE to one or both of these questions, I’m happy to tell you that the answers are FALSE.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this topic. In fact, it’s one of my favorites.

In this week’s video, I’ll explain how YOU might be changing the temperature with the men you meet and how they are simply responding to the climate change.

There is no time to wait to show your availability and your true self. You need to show this RIGHT AWAY with men. Yes, even your very first date.

How do you feel about showing your true self on the 1st date? I can’t wait to read comments below.

Your friend in love,

Today’s Ask April will give you tips to help you decide how you wanted to be treated and pursued so you never question yourself or your intuition again.

I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below. Have you had any online dating experiences you’d like to share?

Your friend in love,