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Creating Chemistry

What makes you a “catch?”

It’s simple. It’s about how you MAKE someone feel. It’s not about your looks, your body, the money you make, the car you drive, the places you’ve traveled or your education and career. There is no such thing as “A Catch” across the board. If beauty and brains were everything, then there wouldn’t be any hot and smart women sitting home alone on a Friday night.

When a man goes out with a woman for the first time or talks …

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The Rules of Dating Have Changed.

Your mother’s list of charming advice is still relevant, but we need to add onto it.  Texting, chasing, photos, social media, ghosting, timelines, and agendas all come into play now.  How do you handle them and get the result you want instead of the frustration you dread?

Respond.

When you don’t know what to do, respond anyway. No “ghosting” or waiting. If someone reaches out to you, respond with your honest feelings. You will never be faulted for being forthright.…

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Want chemistry on your date? Create it!

Chemistry has nothing to do with how much two people have in common or how physically appealing they are to the other person.

A great date has two main ingredients: physical and emotional chemistry.

If you’re not creating emotional chemistry on a date, you’re not dating, you’re just exchanging information.  Chemistry is an active process of connection, and it requires your participation.

One way to inspire chemistry is to make it your goal to bring out the best in someone …

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Men, go up and say “Hello” for goodness sake!

With the advent of dating apps, men are not willing to “take the risk” and approach women they find attractive anymore. The fact that technology has not only changed your behavior but also your natural instincts is crazy to me!

Potential partners are all around you. Look up from your phone, make eye contact, and smile. See what happens. If your smile is returned, go over and introduce yourself to her. What’s the worst that can happen? They’re already in …

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