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Propose this question to yourself when you feel you want to get married.

“Am I honestly ready for the responsibility of marriage?”

Most people don’t think about responsibility when they think about marriage. You are looking for companionship, unconditional love, and unwavering support. Those things come with commitment and responsibility that should be acknowledged and respected.

Being in love with someone is an amazing experience and one to be celebrated. However, just because you love someone and that feeling is returned doesn’t necessarily mean you’re ready for the adult world of marriage. Ask …

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You should update your dating life.

Whether you’ve been single for what seems like an eternity, dating random people that you have no connection with, or have been in the wrong relationship for too long, now is the time to make some updates and changes to your dating life. No more waiting around and simply hoping things will get better.

8 WAYS TO TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR DATING LIFE

Throw away your lists.

This is a cornerstone of my teaching and matching. Your “Mr./Mrs. Right” list …

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A good reason to ALWAYS be on your best behavior.

It’s vital you keep your dating reputation squeaky clean. The dating world (and the city you live in) is smaller than you think. Word travels fast and it spreads like wildfire.
Women share everything. They drill down to the most microscopic details with their girlfriends during their post date feedback. A woman will praise you, see your depth, appreciate your sensitivity, and applaud your character. That same gossip can turn upside down if her report is negative. Her voice is …

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Target your mindset, not your relationship status.

Whether you’ve been dating for years or you’re just starting to get back out there, dating can be a daunting experience filled with ups and a few too many downs.

While you may be tired of sitting at the kids’ table, stuck searching for a plus one, here are 5 tips to keep your mind and perspective on track when all you want to do is give up.

Take your eye off the “Relationship Target.”

Love is not something you …

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When I knew I was ready for marriage.

When my husband proposed, all I kept thinking was: “ Wow, this is it! This is the moment that I’ve helped create for so many others!” Time stood still, or at least I felt like it had. We were looking at the beautiful San Francisco Bay. It was surreal. Perfect. Amazing.

I was filled with emotion, love, joy, surprise and all the other emotions that come with being proposed to.

More importantly, I felt calm. Confident. Ready.

Ready to love …

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Why my blog will support your heart and your life.

If you’ve been following my advice for a while, you know how passionately committed I am to helping people find their footing when it comes to love and relationships.

My goal, when I first started this blog, was to dispel some of the misinformation and bad advice floating around out there. In my work as an elite matchmaker and dating and relationship coach, I meet people every day who are confused about love and dating. I see how easy it …

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