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Sparks! and a Note About Love

If you’ve been following my advice for a while, you know how passionately committed I am to helping women find their footing when it comes to love and relationships.

My goal, when I first started this blog, was to dispel some of the misinformation and bad advice floating around out there. In my work as an elite matchmaker and dating and relationship coach, I meet women every day who are confused about love and dating. I see how easy it is for you to act against your own best interests because of that confusion. For example, trying to seem mysterious to attract men, or being so independent you forget how to let a man in, and yes, even sometimes giving up on dating altogether!

Love Will Find You

So much of what we’re rewarded for in work and in other areas of our lives can lead us to let go of parts of ourselves that we should hang onto. For some, those may be creative parts, for others spiritual, and for still others, the feminine and sexual aspects of who we are. I mean, we’re smart, right? Sometimes, even brilliant! So brilliant, on occasion, that we talk ourselves out of what we want or need because we think we’re beyond it.

Well guess what? It’s okay to cultivate a spirit of openness and generosity in love, and to anticipate that your efforts will come back to you in kind. It doesn’t mean you aren’t smart. It means you’re even smarter.

Since launching “Sparks!,” two years ago, I’ve written more than 200 posts offering substantive, informative and nuanced advice about what it takes to meet and deeply connect with generous, loving, marriage-minded men. Some of those posts have been shared more than forty-thousand times on social media, generated countless thoughtful conversations, and resulted in the hundreds of emails from women about how my advice has helped them find the man of their dreams. These messages, hand-written thank you cards and dashed-off emails really do mean the world to me.

I want to see women succeed in love, and I know that it will find you when you’ve done the work to shift your perspective and genuinely open your heart.

Explore and Discover — It’s All Here For You

Now that I’ve shared this information here with you, it’s time for me to take a little break. I’m working on something even bigger and better, something that will be a huge help to you, and I’ll be revealing that to you soon. But for now, it’s top secret! It’s also taking a lot of my time, which there isn’t much of since I also run a successful matchmaking business.

Although I’m taking a break to focus on some other things, I’m leaving “Sparks!” here for you. I named the blog “Sparks! w/ April Beyer,” because I want this information to ignite a fire in your heart. I want to inspire you to embrace life, become your own best friend, and cultivate your authentic self, so that you ultimately find yourself in a relationship where sparks fly!

Here are links to some of my favorite posts of all time:

Words Every Woman Should Hear at Her Wedding

Attracting Love from the Right Kind of Man in 2016

The 10 Joys of Being Single

What Men See When They Look At You

Three Powerful Ways to Be Vulnerable

Here are some links to some of my most popular posts:

When You Want to Be Married, and He Says “Someday”

Three Simple Ways to Win a Man’s Heart

Rethinking How you THINK about Dating

Is This One Thing Keeping You From Finding Love?

The Three Biggest Dating Myths

The truth about what really works is so very simple. It’s never too late to reclaim and enjoy the discarded dimensions of ourselves that will help us be well-rounded, fun, glorious successes in life and in love. Love is for brilliant women, too.

Thank You

Thank you for being part of my community, and for reading, commenting and sharing. Please remember to go easy on yourself, remain steadfast in your journey, and know that when the time is right – love will find you. Make the most of every moment, before and after.

Wishing you new beginnings and lasting relationships!

Much love, as always,


P.S. For updates on my new endeavors, be sure you’ve followed me of FB and that you’ve signed up for my newsletter! I’ll be making some exciting announcements soon! XOXO, April

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