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Valentine’s Day – It’s Not Just For Lovers

Are you dreading or looking forward to Valentine’s Day?

I know it can be a cheesy little holiday, but when you think about it, why not have a day that celebrates romance? If anything, we need more of this in our lives.

Wherever you are in your personal journey; single, engaged, married or divorced, enjoy yourself this month. It’s a time to treat yourself to something fabulous to get you in the spirit of giving and receiving. No man in your life? Buy yourself some gorgeous flowers and place them next to your nightstand. Roses preferred!! Go out for a gourmet meal or book a spa day. Get the picture? Surround yourself with people that are on your team. This means, people that adore you and think you are something special. Be kind to yourself. Make this the moment to forgive yourself for choices you’ve made and forgive anyone who you THINK has wronged you in any way.

Baggage is heavy and no one wants to carry it for you. Travel light!!

In order to fall in love you have to know how to give AND receive. So if you’re not in a relationship right now, start practicing! You don’t need a man in your life to celebrate Valentine’s Day. I heard from a friend and client the other day that she’s hosting a big dinner party for all of her girlfriends. I think that’s a fabulous idea!

Be happy for your friends who ARE in love. Your time will come if it hasn’t already. I seem to get a lot of calls and emails this month from women that are truly upset about their single status and having difficulty supporting the friends who have found love.

Don’t be that woman. Be unique. Be supportive. Love attracts love.

Remember, I spent a decade helping love happen for others while I was single.

Negativity will get you nowhere.

You’re not alone. Take a deep breath and give thanks for all that you DO have in life.

Your family, friends, career, health and a bright future.

Men are attracted to happy, positive, confident women. Fill yourself up with your own joy so being with you will be a luxury and not a chore.

Happiness begins with YOU. Not a relationship.

When love strikes, it happens quickly. Your life can turn around in a blink of an eye.

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